Something Interesting

I came through some questions.

.they are here

 1.

If someone told you,

you are a lot like your partner would this be a complement to you??     

Or you Truly fulfilled or just less lonely or you able to be unapologetically yourself or 

do you feel the need to show up differently to please your partner or 

are you in love with who your partner is right now as a whole or you only love with their good side or the potential or the idea of them or

 would you want your future or an imagined child to date someone like your partner.. ...

MY ANSWERS

 1)) I am who I am. I wouldn’t take being told I’m like my partner as a compliment, because every soul is unique and so am I...

 2))

In any relationship, I don’t think one can feel complete fulfillment...at best, it may ease the sense of loneliness.

I may not be able to remain exactly as I am, out of love, we change a little, and that’s okay.

All is fair in love and war...so, we grow, we adjust, and we keep going...

3)))

When we enter a relationship, we should step in with genuine love for the person as a whole that itself is a form of respect for the relationship. 

4))

A human being is always a mix of both light and shadow..there’s nothing that exists as only good or only bad.

If we look only at someone’s talent or potential, that isn’t really a relationship  that’s more like searching for a person for work.

 We may feel attracted to an idea or a fantasy, but we can’t truly love a mere imagination..

if it's love then it is real...

5))

I would want her to choose someone she truly likes ...

someone who loves her with all her strengths and flaws...

Why should she choose someone similar to the person I loved?..

There is no ..like” or ..similar” here...

She is simply a child who came through me ..that’s all. She and I are different individuals. I would never expect her to love what I or whom I loved...the choice is entirely hers....